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Diary

May 7, 2026

Stretch While You Sill Can

I really should have started stretching earlier in life. I began in earnest over a year ago and at first, I pushed too hard and my muscles were not cooperating, saying, “Hey, wait a minute! We don’t stretch just because you decided to start at 78 years old! Take it easy, lady, or we’ll give you a charley horse you’ll never forget!” I got the message and started slowly. I persevered and soon, my muscles started stretching and it felt good. Muscles tighten as we age and stretching helps loosen them up. And it seems to make them friendlier, too. They don’t yell at me as much these days.

Even now, my stretching should be better but I keep at it. I’m pretty sure if I went to a yoga class, they would ask me to leave, because I was bringing down the vibe in the room, insisting that the class is full. “I only see 5 people here but okay… I guess I’m “na ma stay here.” 🙂

There are so many reasons why stretching is important as we age. Regular stretching:

  • Keeps your joints flexible.
  • Increases blood flow.
  • Helps relieve joint pain and tightness.
  • Improves posture
  • Makes things easier like bending down, reaching up, even walking.
  • Decreases the risk of injuries.
  • Relieves stress, bringing calm and relaxation.

How To Stretch:

  • Hold the stretch for 30 seconds if you can.
  • Don’t bounce.
  • If it hurts, you’re pushing too hard. Stretching should not hurt.

How I Stretch:

  1. I do most of my stretching before bed.
  2. I also find ways to stretch throughout the day.
  3. I put things on upper shelves, forcing me to stretch when I reach for them.
  4. If something falls, it’s an opportunity to try touching my toes to pick it up.
  5. If I drop something again, this time I squat down to pick it up.
  6. After sitting for a while, before standing up I lean down and touch the floor to stretch my back.
  7. I try to hold my stretches for 30 seconds but it’s boring and sometimes I cheat.
  8. If I get a cramp, my muscles get mad. “What part of 30 seconds did you not understand?!”
  9. I’m doing the best I can. 🙂
Apr 26, 2026

Another Week – Lots To Eat

Who doesn’t like food on a stick? Here’s what I cooked this week:

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  • Sweet and sour chicken kabobs with jasmine rice
  • Apple crisp
  • Granola bars
  • Spaghetti with cherry tomatoes & broccoli
  • Marble loaf cake
  • Tortillas
  • Deviled eggs
  • Tomato soup
  • Spinach fried rice
  • Club sandwiches
  • Vegetable soup (to go with the sandwiches)
  • Custard pudding
  • Taco salad
  • No knead whole wheat bread
  • Healthier chocolate chip (mini) cookies

I’m not giving up on making mini cookies to cut down on sugar, even though someone else who lives here keeps eating two. He says I should be happy because he’s not using them to make an ice cream sandwich! 😍

Apr 25, 2026

Things I Regret

Approaching my 80th birthday seems like a good time to ruminate on all the things I regret. I’m listing all the things I regret that are safe to share without a visit from the police department. 👮‍♀️

  • Not taking more pride in my day-to-day appearance. When I walk out of my beautiful home, people assume I work for the owner.
  • Ordering dark chocolate online… in the summer! ☀️
  • Not staying in touch with childhood friends.
  • Assuming I’d never forget how to apply black eye liner.
  • Giving up on making pork chops. I love pork chops but not my pork chop door stops.
  • Never learning how to tap dance.
  • Doing my own highlights with the shower cap and a crochet hook.
  • Not being open to trying new foods, but oysters? Really? 🦪🦪
  • I think I have too many spatulas.
  • Never trying yoga because you have to wear yoga pants.
  • Not going to my reunion  because I was having a bad hair day.
Apr 18, 2026

🍍 Chinese Food On A Stick 🍍

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NEW RECIPE: I love Chinese food and sweet & sour chicken is one of my favorites. I usually make it in a pan but this time I didn’t feel like washing too may dishes so I made kabobs! It was actually easier to make this way and there is almost no cleanup. So I am not going back to the pan version. Plus kabobs just look so pretty. 😋

But remember this: Use fresh pineapple. There is no comparison to the limp and soggy stuff you get in a can. I only use canned pineapple juice for the marinade and that’s okay. Whenever I make kabobs, there is never a shred of leftovers. That’s not the case with my sardine cakes!

To try my easy sweet and sour chicken kabobs with almost no cleanup, click here for the recipe.

Mar 29, 2026

Good Eats All Week

We have a crouton crisis in my kitchen. The new way I’m making them is so good, someone keeps sneaking them before dinner. I won’t say who, but that person has a mustache. Oh wait… that could be either one of us! 😀  Here’s what I cooked this week:

homemade-croutons

  • Soft croutons
  • Spinach fried rice
  • Lemon blueberry loaf
  • Soft oatmeal raisin cookies no butter
  • Creamy chicken & broccoli pasta
  • Granola bars
  • Oatmeal muffins
  • Cabbage soup
  • linguini-broccolini-squash
  • Linguini with broccolini & mini squashes
  • Taco salad
  • Chocolate pudding
  • Chicken tenders with roasted potatoes, sweet potatoes & peppers
  • Almond butter
  • Dark chocolate cashew clusters
  • No knead whole wheat bread

I have a new way to make my croutons! I bake a loaf of no knead white bread, and after it’s cooled, I slice the whole loaf into croutons and freeze them. Then… before dinner, I remove a handful, let them thaw a little, put them in a plastic bag, drizzle with olive oil, salt & pepper and bake them on an ungreased pan in my toaster oven at 350 for about…. oh crap… I forgot to write down the time, but I think it’s about 15 minutes, until they are golden and crispy but still soft on the inside. I will post them soon as a new recipe with the exact time.

My husband loves these too… so much so that I caught him sneaking some before I made the salad. Busted! 😳 I now have a new plan: I count them before toasting. If I start with 16, then I put 8 on my salad and he gets the rest. If there’s only 3 left, it’s his problem. 🙂

Mar 21, 2026

🫑🥕🍅🥦 Better Cooked or Raw? 🫑🥕🍅🥦

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Vegetables are your lifeline to good health, especially a variety of colors, both cooked and raw. But which ones are better cooked or better raw? I’ll keep it simple. Some vegetables should be cooked to get the most benefits. Some not so much. Heat destroys vitamin C but heat helps your body absorb vitamin A. What should we do? It can be confusing so here is my own take on it:

BETTER COOKED:

  • Tomatoes
  • Spinach
  • Carrots
  • Collard greens
  • Swiss chard
  • Broccoli – short steaming (3-4 minutes) preserves its cancer-fighting compounds
  • Cabbage – easier to digest, cooking still provides some cancer fighting compounds
  • Mushrooms
  • Kale for mineral absorption
  • Bell peppers for vitamin A
  • Green beans

BETTER RAW:

  • Leafy salad greens
  • Bell peppers for vitamin C
  • Broccoli for cancer fighting compounds (who eats raw broccoli?? 🤮)
  • Cabbage – raw cabbage has more cancer fighting compounds
  • Cruciferous vegetables (cauliflower, bok choy, Brussels sprouts, etc.)
  • Beets (again, who eats raw beets??)
  • Kale for vitamin C

STILL GOOD EITHER WAY:

  • Bell peppers
  • Cabbage
  • Cauliflower and other cruciferous vegetables
  • Broccoli
  • Kale
  • Beets (cooked beets provide betacarotene and are more digestible when cooked)

Most vegetables need fat to absorb efficiently so my salads always have lots of heart healthy olive oil and sometimes avocado or nuts. I also drizzle extra olive oil on most pasta dishes. Steaming is generally the best way to cook most vegetables, retaining a lot of their nutrients. Roasting is my next choice but boiling is the least optimal way to cook any vegetable, except in soup, chili or stew where you consume the liquid.

*Several reputable sources are reporting that to gain the most benefits from cooked cruciferous vegetables, you should chop them 40 minutes before cooking to activate the beneficial enzymes. I don’t know if I’d have the time…

I hope this helps. I eat lots of vegetables in lots of colors. In fact, every meal I cook starts with what vegetables are in the fridge. Then I build the rest of the meal on that. When I serve a colorful plate of food, I ask my husband, “How beautiful are these vegetables?” He always replies, “Not as beautiful as you.” 😍❤️😍❤️😍❤️ Awwwww… (or he’s just angling for me to make brownies. 🤔)

Here’s a closing poem:

Bake them or steam them, or roast in a pan,
Eat lots of veggies, as many as you can.

Mix up the colors, you’ll benefit more,
You’ll look and feel way better than before.

If you take my advice, if you do as you should,
Your friends will all say… “Bitch, you look good!” 😀

Mar 10, 2026

🥑 Fat-Free? Not For Me. 🥑

“Fat-free” might sound like a good idea but fat is something not to be avoided, even if you’re trying to lose weight. Your body needs fat, particularly healthy fat so if you avoid fat altogether, your skin and hair and nails will pay the price. Worse than that, there are many reasons why healthy fat is essential in your diet.

  • Some important vitamins require fat to be absorbed by your body. (vitamins A, D, E, and K)
  • Your brain needs fat to function at its fullest. (Omega-3 fats from salmon, sardines  & walnuts are best for the brain.)
  • Consuming healthy fat helps prevent chronic inflammation, which can lead to many diseases like some cancers, arthritis, diabetes, heart disease, depression, and Alzheimer’s.
  • If you avoid fat, your skin will be dry, more prone to pimples & blackheads, and you’ll have more wrinkles.

All I’m saying is fat is good, but only the good kind. Here is a basic guide:

FOODS WITH UNHEALTHY FATS:

  • Bacon, hot dogs, sausages, and pepperoni… you know… the things we all love! ☹️
  • Ham, salami, and other deli meats.
  • Cheese, especially soft cheeses like Brie. The harder the cheese, the healthier.
  • Anything deep fried, batter fried or French fried. 🍟 I know. I love French fries too… but I love me more. ❤️
  • Chicken wings are at the top of the bad list. Don’t eat poultry skin.
  • Check ingredients in processed foods. Avoid palm oil and all partially hydrogenated oils.

FOODS WITH HEALTHY FATS:

  • Olive oil 🫒
  • Avocados 🥑
  • Nuts, with best being walnuts, almonds, and cashews. (I have almond butter sandwiches all the time – yummy & healthy!)
  • Fish, primarily fatty fish like salmon, sardines, and mackerel. (Salmon sandwiches, anyone? Yes!)

It’s not hard to incorporate good fats into your meals.

  • I eat salmon sandwiches and almond butter & jam sandwiches all the time.
  • I cook salmon, too.
  • My salad dressing is always homemade and olive oil based and I often add avocados to salads.
  • I always keep containers of raw nuts in the fridge for snacking.

If you’re still not convinced, maybe my poem will help…

Fat is good. Fat is fine.
Eat healthy fat like I eat mine.

Why not give sardines a whirl?
You just might like them. You might not hurl. 🤮

Walnuts, olive oil, salmon too.
Bacon and ham? Not good for you.

Eat healthy fat, I’m saying it twice,
Or eat more bacon and roll the dice. 🥓 🎲

Mar 7, 2026

Lots To Eat This Week

I keep forgetting to take pictures of what I cook, usually because I’m hungry! And when I do remember, it’s a quick snapshot with my phone so the food doesn’t get cold. Here’s what I cooked this week:creamy-chicken-green-beans-jenny-jones

  • Creamy chicken & green beans with salad (recipe coming soon)
  • Tapioca pudding
  • No knead whole wheat bread
  • Chicken tenders (not a picture worth taking 🙂) with roasted potatoes, sweet potatoes, Brussels sprouts, and peppers
  • Spaghetti with meat sauce + salad
  • Dark chocolate dipped coconut macaroons
  • Egg salad

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  • Apple pie bars
  • Green fried rice made with broccoli, bok choy, and peas
  • Cabbage soup with added carrots
  • Leftover chicken tenders with spaghetti in olive oil & garlic + steamed broccoli
  • Whole wheat crepes
  • Taco salad
  • Faster no knead white bread
  • Croutons made with ⬆ that bread

Whenever I’m busy, which is most days, I go to my easy one pan meals like creamy chicken and green beans. I sometimes make it with broccoli and will be posting the recipe showing both versions, since broccoli cooks faster than green beans. 🥦 Also, sometimes, green beans are not worth buying. 👎 I realize my apple pie bars are a little ragged but they did taste great. My husband loves traditional apple pie (who doesn’t?) and he insists it’s just a square apple pie. He says he would like a slice of the pie and I say, “There is no apple pie, but I can give you an apple pie bar.” He says, “Okay – it’s a bar – now can I have a pie-shaped piece?” 😍

Mar 2, 2026

Chicken Tenders Reality Check

BEFORE:chicken-tenders-before

AFTER:chicken-tenders-after

Removing the tendon is easy, they say. Just grab it with a paper towel, they say. Just pull it through a fork, they say. They lie! I have never been able to remove the tendon just like that. I tried the fork thing with a paper towel. I tried the knife thing and sliding it down the tendon. Tweezers. Pliers. Scissors. Gloves. A giant fork. A serrated knife. I thought about calling 9-1-1. Hey, they should have a special phone line for chicken tenders, like they do for Thanksgiving turkeys. 🦃 Can’t remove the tendons? Just dial T-E-N-D-O-N-H-E-L-L and we will talk you off the cliff. And remind you that you are a good and capable cook. Then suggest a tendon support group to know you’re not alone. They meet every four hours. ⏰

Maybe it’s just me but I give up. I will cook them and my husband will remind me that he still loves me no matter what. ❤️ Then he’ll offer to take me out to dinner.